
One of the largest politically and socially controversial issues that has ceased the nation over the last decade or so, is gay marriage. This is when people of the same sex, either two men or two women, get married. Some consider this to be an abomination to the religious institute of marriage. While others claim it as just "unnatural." While these arguments have some legitimization's they are overall unsubstantiated. The other side of the argument is that marriage is also a civil institution and as such the couples that have decided to be with a partner of the same gender wish to share in the benefits and commitment of marriage. And yet others who are considered to be more extreme, would say that the religious institution of marriage is also one that should be accessable to homosexuals. There have been many laws that have been passed both for and agianst Homosexuals and their rights to marriage.
My Position is rather direct and may chafe at some peoples perception of me. I beleive that not only is Same-sex marriage a legitimate form of marriage, I also beleive that in many cases that their marriages are more stable than the many heterosexual marriages that exist, and end up in divorce. While I am not personally sexually inclined toward other men, i think that if others are than that is there perogative and for them to deal with as they will. It is not our place to judge them. In fact the gay people that I know are some of the best people that I know. And they deserve to have the rights of other people in other legitimate relationships.
It doesnt matter if they are gay, if they want to get married they should be allowed. This is one of the key pillars of being an american, the right to do things with freedom, and composure. Instead the nation is divided up on this issue, this issue is simple. It is simple, it is not our place to judge. Rather it is ours to love then. This perspective is from a religious standpoint. If you are not religous then you should respect their "freedom" as Americans. This is my position on gay marriage.